A friend recently said that it would be impossible to prepare somebody 100% for college, that whatever had been told to him was helpful but comparable to the first step in a journey of thousands. Something like a needle in a haystack. A molehill of a mountain. Exhausted maxims aside, I’ve compiled a list of 5 of those things that just seem to escape usual lectures.
1. Your professor will try to help you to the best of his or her ability.
I feel like a lot of High School teachers spend a lot of time telling their students what their professors will and will not do. While a lot of these suggestions touch base, it seems to me that many of my past teachers were obsessed with making professors seem like apathetic, unrelenting machines whose tasks involved assigning homework and burning small villages. Most of my professors have been pretty laid back and have gone out of their way to prepare students for oncoming tests and exams. It’s like when you were told that you’d spend the rest of your life writing in cursive–do you even remember how to write Gs?
2. You should probably join a club. Or get involved.
Whether it’s the medieval fighting club, your favorite fraternity, or even work, it’s important to find people who share the same interests as you. Joining a club will cut down on the awkward lunches spent trying to connect to people in your classes or on your floor. If you choose to eat lunch with someone from your Calc 2 class then you’re taking the chance that your conversation will involve a math related joke (let me lay tangent to your curves), a less than satisfying discussion about the food (is this chicken or fish), or an unplanned event surprisingly interrupting your meal (my roommate all of a sudden needs moral support, see you later).
3. Take some time off.
It’s important that you reward yourself every once in awhile with an hour or two of just sitting around. If not, your stress levels will skyrocket. For example, a professor recently assigned a simple five page paper, and he even gave five weeks to do it. In effect, he has given me five weeks of mental anguish and torture. The stress is boiling behind the scenes, and mark my words, I won’t start it until two or three days before it’s due. And then I’ll be okay until midterms roll around. And then I’ll be okay until finals roll around. . . .
4. Procrastinate a bit.
Last Monday I had a little extra time, so I read ahead in the book and finished both my Tuesday and my Thursday reading assignment for my World Films class. It was the first time in my life that I had ever done anything in advance (I went to Egypt this summer and packed the day before), so I was a bit proud of myself. I aced my Tuesday quiz just as expected, but when I waltzed into Thursday’s class with an arrogant smile on my face and an eager pencil in my hand, my mind went blank. I could barely remember what I had read on Tuesday. In some cases it helps to procrastinate a bit. Really more than that, it’s important to make a schedule and attempt to stick to it. Get yourself in the swing of things–that’s pretty important.
5. Enjoy inconvenience.
I have a nice schedule that sits above my desk and keeps track of my credit hours, two jobs and various other commitments. I don’t have much time in between tasks. Sometimes I walk across the quad with my head down and try to avoid any other oncoming commitments. But last year when a girl asked me for my Poli Sci notes for a class she had missed and took 20 minutes to copy mine down, I just sighed and went on with my life thinking something about doing a good deed. Weeks later when I was campaigning for Student Government and I attempted to win over the support of a club on campus, she happened to be the president. She ultimately saved me 20 minutes by telling her members how patient I had been that day weeks before.